In The Still Of The Night

Up again into the wee hours of the night. Restless. Tossing. Between the Restless Legs, the joint pain of Rheumatoid Arthritis, and the sharp stabbing pain of Fibromyalgia…sleep is hard work to obtain. Sleep is often thought of as a solitary activity, but for many people, it’s a shared experience, especially for couples who share a bed. However, when one partner struggles with insomnia, it can create challenges that extend beyond just the individual. These nights are bothersome to me due to lack of clarity the next day, an onset of a migraine, and just the general fog that looms over…but what about when you have a spouse or partner? For years I have been up all day and all night with no one to annoy except Dobby. Now, there is a plus one. A plus one who has to get up in the morning and go to work. A plus one that needs uninterrupted sleep. What do you do when your disturbing night time ritual is disturbing them? In this blog post, we’ll explore the dynamics of insomnia within relationships and offer tips for couples on how to navigate this common sleep disorder together. Understanding Insomnia’s Impact on Relationships: Insomnia isn’t just about difficulty falling or staying asleep; it can affect various aspects of a person’s life, including their mood, cognitive function, and overall well-being. When one partner in a relationship struggles with insomnia, it can impact both partners in different ways. The sleep-deprived partner may experience frustration, irritability, and a decreased ability to engage in everyday activities, while the other partner may feel helpless, stressed, or resentful due to the disruption of their own sleep patterns. Communication is Key: As with any challenge in a relationship, communication is essential when it comes to dealing with insomnia. Both partners should feel comfortable discussing their feelings, concerns, and needs regarding sleep. The partner experiencing insomnia should openly communicate their struggles, while the other partner should offer empathy, support, and understanding. It’s crucial to approach the conversation with empathy and without judgment, recognizing that insomnia is a legitimate medical condition that requires compassion and support. Establishing Bedtime Rituals and Boundaries: Creating bedtime rituals and boundaries can help minimize the impact of insomnia on both partners’ sleep quality. This may involve setting a consistent sleep schedule, creating a relaxing bedtime routine, and establishing boundaries around electronic devices, caffeine, and stimulating activities before bed. Couples can also discuss strategies for managing nighttime disturbances, such as using earplugs, white noise machines, or sleeping in separate beds when necessary. By setting clear expectations and boundaries, couples can create a sleep-friendly environment that supports better rest for both partners. Prioritize Self-Care: Taking care of yourself is essential when you’re dealing with chronic sleep issues. Practice good sleep hygiene by creating a calming bedtime routine, avoiding caffeine and electronic devices before bed, and creating a comfortable sleep environment. Incorporate relaxation techniques such as meditation, deep breathing exercises, or gentle stretching to help alleviate nighttime stress and promote better sleep. Seeking Support and Solutions: Dealing with insomnia as a couple may require seeking support from healthcare professionals, such as primary care physicians, sleep specialists, or therapists. Couples can work together to explore treatment options, such as cognitive-behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I), relaxation techniques, or medication, depending on the severity and underlying causes of the insomnia. Additionally, couples can engage in lifestyle changes together, such as regular exercise, healthy eating habits, and stress management techniques, to promote better sleep for both partners. I have had some luck with CBD tinctures and edibles, and have many friends have great experiences with acupuncture. I also started watching YouTube for night time yoga until I had the routine memorized a bit. I stayed in certain poses longer, changed it up as I went to suit me. There are numerous products available that are designed to help improve sleep quality and promote relaxation. Here are some popular options: Insomnia can present unique challenges for couples who share a bed, but with open communication, empathy, and proactive strategies, it’s possible to navigate this sleep disorder together. By prioritizing each other’s needs, establishing bedtime rituals and boundaries, seeking support and solutions, couples can strengthen their relationship and improve their overall sleep quality, even in the face of insomnia’s challenges. Remember, you’re in this together, and supporting each other through the ups and downs of insomnia can ultimately bring you closer as a couple.

Step Past Fear

I see a lot of post of people being scared to go out on their own. It’s an exciting idea to go across country but as a solo traveler for 3 years and now an RV Tech, let me tell you that BABY STEPS is your absolute friend. Find a state park nearby and go for a weekend. Then find a national park or location you would like to see about 4 to 8 hours away and stay for a week. Boondock alone 1 night on free land in the absolute pitch black darkness with nothing but the sound of the wind and coyotes. Do it bite-sized chunks. Here’s why…if you can drive the camper 2 hours you can drive it 4. If you can stay 1 night in the absolute solitude of boondocking then you can do it 2 nights… and may find that you really really love it. If you can stay a weekend somewhere you can stay a week. If you can drive the highway, then you can drive the interstate. All of these scenarios allow you to practice backing in. There is an absolute peace and freedom on the other side of that fear… I swear to you. You will grow leaps and bounds by sitting in the uncomfortably of being by yourself with no distractions. Give this to yourself. Get to know yourself. It’s a gift, and it will open up new worlds. Peace be to you all.

Walk the Line

Most of the Stories and Shenanigans article in my magazine are reluctantly mine…because I do some stupid shit! Today was no exception. I had to move sites due to the spot being reserved tonight so I picked one online and booked it. THEN I went and looked at it. It had a truck camper squeezed into it bumper to bumper and was up a hill. Nope. So had to call the parks system and pay an additional $5 to move sites. Then I circled around and was trying to back in and the people across from me were packing up to leave. I rolled down the window and asked are you leaving right now (knowing this charade would take me a good long while and I was in their way)…the guys response was “what’s it to ya”. OMG son today is not the day. Not the day! I circled around again, waited for them to leave and then proceeded to do my 36 point back in procedure. Took me only 3 tries…yippee! Unfortunately this site was at the opposite end of the slope. So basically I’m in a ditch. No sense leveling this thing but I have it a good shot. It didn’t work. The pitch between my SUV and my camper looks like a small V. So what do I do? Open my hatch without thinking to get my stuff out. And immediately get it lodged on the trailer jack. At this point I have reached my quota already on cuss words but I’m going for a all time record! I get it unstuck by sheer brute force and shut it. Now I have to climb in and over the folded down back seat and throw row seat (which is my entire toolbox) to get my drill. Now to plug in. No 30 amp breaker. It’s broken. Only 50 amp! Thankfully I just bought a plug (dogbone) that goes from 50 amp to 30 amp. But did I put it where it should go? Hell no! I was gonna do that “later”. We all know later never comes. I spend another 30 mins trying to find where I slung it and cussing myself for never putting things away right. My neighbors are pretty sure I’m off my meds at this stage. Odd that they all started packing to leave at the same time. Finally find it in the stupidest of places and get that plugged in. That’s it. I’m done! Go inside to check on the fridge and electric. Open the fridge and out comes 3 containers of stuff. Splash! All over the floor! Now I have to clean that up and keep Dobby’s big nose from inspecting everything I’m doing. That is it! Final straw. I’ve had enough! In times like these I walk the line. Take my phone, maybe play some music, and get on the road or tail, head down and just step it off! I walk till I can’t breathe. Till my back hurts. Till I don’t know where I am. Thankfully I’m old and chubby so that’s not long. Then I stop and look around me. Take in a 360° view of my surroundings. Every step and every pause bring me to something to take a picture of. A deer that crosses my path. A cool shiny rock. An overlook with a river or canyon view that takes my breath away. I am able to breathe. Able to reset. And able to see where I need to adapt and change so I don’t frustrate myself by my own laziness or ADD again. What do you do when the obstacles stick up in the day and there’s no escape from them? How do you bring yourself back to center?

Hidden Dallas History

Ever want to test your nervous system and rigger of your bowels? Then tow an RV through Dallas, TX! Upon leaving my training, I decided to jot over to Dallas to visit some long-time friends and spend a few days with them before making the trek home to Oklahoma to see my Son. Thankfully, I had found a state park that was literally right outside the city. Cedar Hill State Park, located just a short drive from Dallas, Texas, is a hidden gem that offers visitors a chance to escape the hustle and bustle of the city and experience the natural beauty of the area. I was able to stay connected to my camper and just take an Uber to and from the various points in the city to meet up with friends and really enjoy my time there without having to navigate big city traffic. While at Cedar Hill State Park, I took a short hike and found a hidden gem. Penn Farm is a beautifully restored historical farm that offers a glimpse into the past and serves as an educational center and museum. The farm, which dates back to the 1850s, was once a working farm that produced cotton, corn, and other crops. Today, it serves as an educational center and museum that offers visitors a glimpse into the lives of the people who once lived and worked on the farm. Visitors can take a tour of the farmhouse, which has been restored to its original condition and furnished with period pieces, as well as the barn, smokehouse, and blacksmith shop. In addition to touring the farm, visitors can also participate in the educational programs offered by Penn Farm. These programs include guided tours, workshops, and hands-on activities that teach visitors about the history and culture of the area. These activities are great for families, as they are designed to be both educational and fun. After a visit to Penn Farm, visitors can also take advantage of the many outdoor activities offered by Cedar Hill State Park. The park offers hiking, fishing, and boating, as well as playgrounds, picnic areas, and campgrounds. Visitors can also take in the beautiful views of the surrounding area, including the Joe Pool Lake and the Cedar Hill Nature Preserve. Overall, a visit to Penn Farm at Cedar Hill State Park is a must-do for anyone visiting the Dallas area. The farm offers a unique and educational experience that provides a glimpse into the past, and the surrounding state park offers a variety of outdoor activities that will appeal to visitors of all ages. It’s a great option for a day trip or weekend getaway, and it’s a perfect opportunity to explore the natural beauty of Texas while learning about its history. This will be my go-to stop if I ever have to big in the big city again!

Annual Growth

We measure children every year to see how tall they have gotten. We take photos on birthdays to show the progression of life and its milestones along the way. Likewise, I feel like it’s important to always look back on how far you have come rather than focus on what more you need to accomplish. I have been a full-time RVer now for almost 2 years come May 2023. Out of those beginnings sprung this very magazine. An outlet for wisdom, tips, community, and laughs. My journey also gave birth to one ebook and another book along the way. Inventions, projects, speaking engagements, and a true desire to help people travel solo. Some of you may know my origin story, but for those who don’t here is a recap. A tumor is what got me to realize that time was finite and that the different life that I had dreamed about needed to happen sooner rather than later. After my kids left home to spread their wings, I felt like it was finally time to spread mine. I quickly moved to southern Missouri to a tourist town to work as a graphic designer. I was not impressed. Not with the town, the people, the company I worked for…none of it. At that same time a friend of mine, of nearly 20 years, was going through a divorce. A messy one. We came to an agreement, and I moved to central Missouri to assist her with bills and to catch up on precious time we had missed. The arrangement soon showed its true colors and I realized that my presence there was more one-sided. Yet I stayed. I kept trying to reconnect to no avail. After finding my second tumor, I came home from my biopsy to find an eviction letter in my mailbox…from my friend! It was the final straw! I sold what I could, shoved the rest into storage, and bought a small camper out of someone’s backyard, and was gone. Gone to the Tetons in the great state of Wyoming for my very first workcamping gig. The amount of learning I had to do in that first year was astronomical. Not only did I have to learn how to tow and unhook and set up a camper, but I had to learn how to earn a living on the road. Learn, or rather unlearn how not to depend on the 9 to 5. Coming “home” took on an entirely different meaning.Most full-timers have gotten their feet wet a bit by becoming weekend warriors and taking long trips to try out this life before retirement. I did not have that luxury. Not the practice run. Not a steady income. Nothing. I just took off and never looked back. In doing so, I have had to learn the hard way, which in my case is the only way I truly learn. So what did I learn or even unlearn? I learned to remodel everything. From painting a full mural, not once, but twice on the outside and all the many projects inside. I had to learn and be mindful of weights, placement, balance and how to upcycle to the max!I learned that every week, month or even day that I said “I can’t do this” …I actually did it. Sometimes not well and most times I had to redo it…but I did it. Every busted knuckle and mismeasured board came with its own set of curse words and tears. And yet I bandaged the scraps and learned to measure more times than needed and got it fixed. That I don’t need a 9 to 5 job or a career. My identity is not tied up or held hostage by a profession any longer. Which gives me the freedom to create when I want and what I want. To not be dictated by some hierarchy but to be a part of something. Something worthwhile. I learned that life is so much better without Netflix and Hulu and your life measured in inches and dpi’s. Seeing the actual world, not just on a screen but smelling it, feeling the breeze, even so much as noticing the difference in the way water taste in various locations amazes me. In my travels, I have come to know that Wyoming is too cold for me. Beautiful in all her splendor but the wind there is like standing in front of an open freezer. I am never warm there. That the Grand Canyon has a smell. It smells like wet rocks and pine trees.I learned that I am NOT a dessert dweller! I have to have trees and water in my life and though I respect the beauty it holds; it is not for me. My happy place is near or on water. It’s where I learned to meditate for the first time. It’s what washes my day away and everything negative that has stuck with me from the day. Clean slate.I learned to hike and kayak. Being outdoors in nature is so healing for me. Kayaking allowed me to be free on the water and hiking gave me the exercise I desperately need without feeling like it was a chore. To trek to places I could not see. Down paths that opened up to magical views were so spectacular. I learned that I can live bigger, bolder, and brighter with less money, less effort, and way less stress. I have narrowed my expenses down to about $700 a month and I tend to not make much more than that. Just enough for what I need. If I need more, I make more. But nothing in excess. I learned the true meaning of gratefulness. Whether it’s having that first real shower after having to bath out of a cup of cold water for days, or that first blast of heat that comes from your heater after being without electricity and freezing at night. I have learned the true meaning of gratitude. Grateful for the next …

My New Favorite Hidey Hole

Moqui Cave Right at the base of Kanab, UT sits a small, out-of-the-way cave tucked into the side of a hill. This cave has an interesting story and fascinating rock display, along with lots of dinosaur fossils and footprints.  For only $7 you can get access to this cave, the guided story, the fossil collection and the massive florescent rock collection.  I happened to find this on Google and stopped on a whim. The parking lot was small but could accommodate my camper and tow vehicle.  And it was well worth the stop. One of my favorite Hidey Holes along my journey! Gypsy Soul Travel is LIVE! Get all your travel needs from roadtrip destinations, flights, cruises and all inclusive foreign and domestic travel all from one place. Start Traveling The Story The cave itself has quite a unique history- The late Garth and Laura Chamberlain purchased the cave in 1951. As explained by my tour guide, this area was used to film some of the early westerns. Such as Gunsmoke, The Rifleman, and lots of John Wayne movies. The biggest complaint was that there was nowhere to get out of the heat and get a cold drink. The religious edict of Utah did not allow for alcohol usage…on land. So the Chamberlains did it INSIDE LAND. Getting around that stipulation in the law and providing the first bar and dance hall in southwest Utah.  During the week, one could grab a bite to eat and something cool to drink at their fully functional bar, and a live band would come to play on Friday and Saturday nights. Inside the bar, you can still see the carvings of names on the walls and bar top such as John Wayne, Elvis Presley, Ronald Regan, and more! A museum was always in their sights, as Garth studied Geology, Archaeology, and Paleontology. The exhibits on display are his personal findings after years of studies and collecting. They include more than 1,000 arrowheads, ceremonial points, jugs, pots, bowls, and working tools from the Puebloan Era. There is a sizeable collection of dinosaur tracks and fossils, most of which were found in the surrounding area. Their fluorescent mineral displays is one of the largest in the U.S.  Previous Next Definitely add this to your next trip to Utah Get more great travel ideas and places in my emag Delivered to your email every month. Clickable and interactive. Get travel ideas for hiking, camping, costs and GPS coordinates along with excellent inspirational stories from travelers like you. Get Your FREE Copy! Facebook Instagram Tiktok Facebook

Rocking and Rolling in Austin

Austin, Texas is known for a number of things, including: I decided to visit the Museum of Ice Cream while I was there. It is a very Willy Wonka child-like experience. Lots of fun. Very short experience and way overpriced. But any place I can get samples of ice cream and end off with a cocktail at an ice cream bar…is a good day! Austin, Texas is a great destination for a solo or group trip for women. Here are some ideas for things to do and places to stay in Austin: No matter what you choose to do, Austin is a welcoming and friendly city that is perfect for a women’s getaway.

Deep South Mansion

The Bragg-Mitchell Mansion is a historic house located in Mobile, Alabama. Built in 1855, the mansion is an excellent example of antebellum architecture, with its grand columns and sweeping verandas. It was built by Judge John Bragg, a prominent lawyer and politician, and his wife, Eliza. The mansion was later purchased by Dr. Peter Mitchell, a renowned physician, and his wife, Caroline, who added many of the home’s distinctive features, including the elaborate ironwork and the formal gardens. One of the most striking features of the Bragg-Mitchell Mansion is its grand entrance, which features a sweeping staircase and a double parlor with intricate plasterwork and marble fireplaces. The home is adorned with beautiful chandeliers and antique furnishings, giving it a feeling of elegance and sophistication. The mansion’s grand ballroom is the perfect setting for events such as weddings and parties, and it has been used for many such occasions over the years. As a woman, it’s always exciting to discover a place with a rich history and beautiful architecture, and the Bragg-Mitchell Mansion in Mobile, Alabama is just that. This antebellum mansion is a true gem, with its grand columns and sweeping verandas. Antebellum History Antebellum refers to the period before the American Civil War (1861-1865). The term “antebellum” is derived from the Latin words “ante” (meaning “before”) and “bellum” (meaning “war”). In the United States, the antebellum period is often associated with the Old South and the plantation culture that existed in the southern states. During the antebellum period, the economy of the southern states was largely based on the production of cotton, tobacco, and other crops. Plantations were a common sight in the South, and they were typically large tracts of land that were worked by enslaved African Americans. Many plantation owners were wealthy and lived in grand mansions, which were often referred to as antebellum houses or plantation houses. These houses were typically built in the classical style, with grand columns and sweeping verandas, and were designed to evoke a sense of sophistication and elegance. The antebellum period was a time of great social and economic change in the United States. In the North, industrialization was on the rise, and many people were moving from rural areas to urban centers in search of work. In the South, however, the economy was largely based on agriculture, and many people lived and worked on plantations. The North and South were also divided politically, with the North being more supportive of abolition and the South being more supportive of slavery. The antebellum period came to an end with the outbreak of the Civil War in 1861. The war had a profound impact on the United States, and it marked the end of the plantation culture and the beginning of a new era in American history. Me, personally, I love the architecture and its beauty of it, but the history really upsets me and makes me sad. One of the first things that will catch your eye when you arrive at the Bragg-Mitchell Mansion is its grand entrance, complete with a sweeping staircase and a double parlor with intricate plasterwork and marble fireplaces. As you wander through the mansion, you’ll be struck by the beautiful chandeliers and antique furnishings that adorn the rooms, giving the entire space a feeling of elegance and sophistication. But the Bragg-Mitchell Mansion isn’t just a pretty face. It’s also home to a grand ballroom, which has played host to countless events over the years, including weddings and parties. If you’re in the market for a unique and beautiful venue for your own special occasion, the Bragg-Mitchell Mansion might just be the perfect fit. In addition to the mansion’s interior, the exterior is equally as stunning. Surrounded by lush gardens and landscaped grounds, the mansion provides a beautiful setting for outdoor events. The gardens, which feature a variety of plants and flowers, including camellias, azaleas, and magnolias, are a true sight to behold. And if you’re a fan of outbuildings, you’ll be pleased to know that the mansion is home to a carriage house and stable, which have been beautifully restored and now serve as event spaces. If you’re in the Mobile area, the Bragg-Mitchell Mansion is a must-see. It’s open to the public for tours, so you can explore the mansion’s beautiful rooms and gardens and learn about its rich history. And if you’re looking for a unique venue for your next special occasion, the mansion is available for rent. Don’t miss out on the opportunity to experience this beautiful and historic gem for yourself.

Digging For Diamonds

One of the only places in the world where the public can search for natural diamonds in their original volcanic source, Crater of Diamonds is a one-of-a-kind experience that brings people from all over the world to Murfreesboro, Arkansas. Visitors to the park search a 37-acre field, the eroded surface of a volcanic crater, for a variety of rocks, minerals, and gemstones – and any rock or mineral you find is yours to keep. You may bring your own mining equipment to search with (no battery-operated or motor-driven mining tools allowed), or rent tools from the park. LET THE SEARCH BEGIN Your diamond search begins here, where you can prepare for your visit by learning about diamonds and how to search for them. There are 3 main ways to search for diamonds. Surface search – Walk around and look for something shiny. Surface Search Dig – Dig the first 2″ of dirt with a hand trowel or spade and sift with a large sifter into a fine sifter. Water Sifting – Wet the fine sifting in the provided stations You can view real, uncut diamonds at the park’s visitor center and interact with exhibits illustrating the area’s unique history and geology. At the Diamond Discovery Center, you can learn more about rocks and minerals found at the park and how to search for diamonds using various techniques. Diamonds come in all colors of the rainbow: the three colors found here at the park are white, brown, and yellow. Amethyst, garnet, jasper, agate, quartz, and other rocks and minerals naturally occur here. Park staff provide positive identification of rocks and minerals found at the park, as well as diamond mining demonstrations and other interpretive programs. The cost for admission into the state park is only $10. Equipment is an additional fee based on the amount of equipment that you want. I went with a basic set which included: a 5-gallon bucket, spade, large sifter, fine sifter. This set was $57 upfront and once returned, I received $45 back. Making the rental actually only $12 for the entire day. Other items that would be helpful to bring would be: Water to drink Old sweatpants/jeans Rubber boots Rubber or waterproof gloves Rubber apron, waders, or coveralls if doing water sifting A collapsable step stool to sit on Knee pads Trekking poles or something to assist in getting up and down Wagon (can be rented at the store as well) Earbuds to listen to music Lunch. Lots of picnic tables around I spent more than 2 hours there and I left extremely dusty from head to toe, sore, and with nothing to show for it except a small piece of turquoise, a couple of neat agate-like rocks….and a dirty butt!!! More than 33,100 diamonds have been found by park visitors since the Crater of Diamonds became an Arkansas state park in 1972. Notable diamonds found at the Crater include the 40.23-carat Uncle Sam, the largest diamond ever unearthed in the U.S.; the 16.37-carat Amarillo Starlight; the 15.33-carat Star of Arkansas; and the 8.52-carat Esperanza. WHERE TO STAY I stayed at Cowhide Cove (old part) which was located about 14 mins from the state park. The cost was $20/night for electricity and water. Paved entry all the way in. All back-in sites but not very level. Bathrooms are located here but no shower house. Right on a peninsula and great lake views. There is a newer section campground which is really pretty hairy to get into. Steep, narrow road with hairpin turns. Showers are located at the newer section. There is a campground at the state park which was super full and was under construction when I visited. So that made traffic more congested. There is also an RV park that is around 5 miles away called Murfesburro RV Park in Murfesburro, AR. The cost was $30 a night.

Where Time Stands Still

Nestled at the base of a hillside sits Hot Lake Lodge in La Grande, OR. Native Americans often used the hot springs themselves for it’s medicinal powers before settlement and colonization occurred in the area; the lake was named “Ea-Kesh-Pa” by the Nez Perce. Later it became a popular stop for weary travelers on the Oregon Trail. The famous 1906 brick hotel, now under renovation, was once called the “Mayo Clinic of the West” and attracted visitors and patients from around the world. Hot Lake’s heyday lasted into the mid-1930s. A devastating fire in 1934 destroyed all wooden structures, but the 1906 brick building survived. History of Hot Lake Lodge In 1864, Fitzgerald Newhard built the first wooden structure of the building, which faced toward the bluff rather than outward toward the lake. The structure was similar to the contents of a modern-day shopping mall, containing a post office, blacksmith, dance hall, barber shop, bath house, and several other businesses. By 1884, the Union Pacific Railroad commenced its construction, running near Hot Lake. In 1903, the original wooden structure was demolished, and construction began on a new hotel and various bathhouses. Dr. Phy became involved with the project in 1904, and the brick structure of the building began to be built two years later. Well-renowned architect John V. Bennes of nearby Baker City has been attributed to the architectural design of the building, reminiscent of the Colonial era; Bennes also designed countless buildings on the Oregon State University campus, as well as several buildings in Portland, Oregon. By 1908, the brick building was complete, housing just over 100 guest rooms. Soon after, the Central Railroad of Oregon built a 4-mile (6.4 km) line from Richmond directly to the hotel in 1912. In 1917, Dr. Phy purchased the hotel and resort, renaming it “Hot Lake Sanitorium”, housing guest rooms, medical wards, offices, and a kitchen/dance hall. The building was from then on known not only as a resort for the rich, but also as a hospital for the ill; the geothermal mineral waters from the springs were used and experimented with to help treat patients and guests, making the resort a pioneering figure in western experimental medicine. By 1924, the hotel was a major tourist attraction; countless new visitors arrived daily from all over the world. The Mayo brothers, founders of the Mayo Clinic, were frequent visitors to the hotel, as well as Wild Bill Hickok. Dr. Phy, the central manager and owner of the property, died in 1931 of pneumonia. On May 7, 1934, a fire destroyed the majority of the building’s right side, completely demolishing the wooden structures of the hotel; the 65,000-square-foot (6,000 m2) brick portion of the building, however, survived. The building had contained nearly 300 rooms and dining areas for over 1,000 guests prior to the fire. From then on, business at the hotel declined, and eventually, the hospital area on the third floor was the only functioning business. A flight school and nurse’s training center were established at the hotel during World War II, and U.S. Route 30 was later built, with Oregon Route 203 branching off of it and running right by the front of the hotel grounds. The attraction of the complex declined in later years, and its use as a resort came to a halt in 1953 when it was converted solely to a nursing home by Dr. Roth. By 1975, ownership of the building had changed, and a short-lived restaurant and nightclub was opened, which only ran for two years. In the mid-1980s, Dr. Lyle Griffith purchased the property and used one corner of the hotel as a bathhouse; by 1991, the bathhouse closed down, and the hotel was abandoned, falling prey to local vandals and the elements. Today In 2003, the building, which was literally falling apart, was purchased from Charles and Louise Rhea by David Manuel. Restoration began soon after; the building was greatly dilapidated, with all 368 windows broken and/or missing, and a sparsely-remaining roof. After two years of construction, it was opened to the public for tours in 2005, while individual guest rooms were still being sponsored and renovated. In 2008, the west wing of the building collapsed. In 2010, the building functioned as a bed and breakfast, with dozens of restored rooms, a spa, a restaurant, a bronze foundry, and a museum. By 2019 the harsh Eastern Oregon elements had begun to undo years of hard work by the Manuel family. The owners of Grande Hot Springs RV Resort next door to Hot Lake Springs purchased the Hot Lake property in 2020. Restoration is underway and will include many historic preservation projects, including the Grand Entry Porch, Veranda, Balustrade, and Historic Spring House. Current amenities include an updated hot springs soaking area, updated rooms, and beer, wine, and cider sales on-site.  My Experience I have been fortunate to work next door at the RV park and also join the other staff in the theater and ballroom for staff events. I have been known to frequent the pub on some occasions as well. But I never got to soak there in the hot tubs overlooking the lake, nor got to go up onto the third floor where the old medical equipment is stored until recently. And let me tell you that was an experience! The hotel has an ancient Otis elevator that is no longer in service but the inner workings and the gated car is on display for all to see. With no elevator on site, you have to take the grand staircase up to the third floor which was hot and musty. Old ornamental radiators line the hallways and grace each room. Pretty sure some of them were on because it was HOT in there! The rooms proudly displayed how the days of old might have looked when the upper floors were a medical facility used for nursing staff and patients. An x-ray room with the oldest x-ray machine in existence (that’s what the sign said) was in …